In a small bowl, whisk together the gochujang paste, honey and sesame oil.
Heat a large skillet over medium heat. Add the avocado oil and the scallions. Stir frequently for 3-4 minutes, watching closely, until they are golden brown and slightly crispy. Remove the scallions from the oil and set aside.
Heat the scallion oil over medium high heat. Cook the eggplant and zucchini segments in 2-3 batches, making sure each batch fits in an even layer. Turn them occasionally, cooking for 2-3 minutes until slightly golden brown, and softened. Once each batch is finished, remove them to a plate and set aside while you finish the rest.
Once all your eggplant and zucchini are cooked, return them to the pan and, off the heat, stir through the gochujang paste mixture until well combined.
Transfer to a plate, garnish with the reserved crispy scallions and enjoy! Serve alongside rice if desired.